A SANDPIPER TO BRING YOU JOY
She was six years old when I first met her on the beach near where I live. I drive to
this beach, a distance of three or four miles, whenever the world begins to close in
on me. She was building a sandcastle or something and looked up, her eyes as blue
as the sea.
"Hello," she said. I answered with a nod, not really in the mood to bother with a
small child.
"I'm building," she said.
"I see that. What is it?" I asked, not caring.
"Oh, I don't know, I just like the feel of sand."
That sounds good, I thought, and slipped off my shoes. A sandpiper glided by.
"That's a joy," the child said.
"It's a what?"
"It's a joy. My mama says sandpipers come to bring us joy."
The bird went gliding down the beach. "Good-bye, joy," I muttered to myself;
"Hello,pain," and turned to walk on. I was depressed; my life seemed completely
out of balance.
"What's your name?" She wouldn't give up.
"Robert," I answered. "I'm Robert Peterson."
"Mine's Wendy, I'm six."
"Hi, Wendy." She giggled.
"You're funny," she said.
In spite of my gloom I laughed too and walked on. Her musical giggle followed
me. "Come again, Mr. P," she called. "We'll have another happy day."
The days and weeks that followed belong to others: a group of unruly Boy Scouts,
PTA meetings, an ailing mother. The sun was shining one morning as I took my
hands out of the dishwater. "I need a sandpiper," I said to myself gathering up my
coat. The ever-changing balm of the seashore awaited me. The breeze was chilly,
but I strode along, trying to recapture the serenity I needed. I had forgotten the
child and was startled when she appeared.
Hello, Mr. P," she said. "Do you want to play?"
"What did you have in mind?" I asked, with a twinge of annoyance.
"I don't know, you say."
"How about charades?" I asked sarcastically.
The tinkling laughter burst forth again. "I don't know what that is."
"Then let's just walk."
Looking at her, I noticed the delicate fairness of her face.
"Where do you live?" I asked.
"Over there." She pointed toward a row of summer cottages.
Strange, I thought, in winter.
"Where do you go to school?"
"I don't go to school. Mommy says we're on vacation."
She chattered little girl talk as we strolled up the beach, but my mind was on
other things. When I left for home, Wendy said it had been a happy day. Feeling
surprisingly better, I smiled at her and agreed.
Three weeks later, I rushed to my beach in a state of near panic. I was in no
mood to even greet Wendy. I thought I saw her mother on the porch and felt like
demanding she keep her child at home. "Look, if you don't mind," I said crossly
when Wendy caught up with me, "I'd rather be alone today."
She seemed unusually pale and out of breath. "Why?" she asked.
I turned toward her and shouted, "Because my mother died!"
And thought, my God, why was I saying this to a little child?
"Oh," she said quietly, "then this is a bad day."
"Yes," I said, "and yesterday and the day before and ~ oh, go away!"
"Did it hurt? " she inquired.
"Did what hurt?" I was exasperated with her, with myself.
"When she died?"
"Of course it hurt!" I snapped, misunderstanding, and wrapped up in myself I
strode off.
A month or so after that, when I next went to the beach, she wasn't there.
Feeling guilty, ashamed and admitting to myself I missed her, I went up to the
cottage after my walk and knocked at the door. A drawn looking young woman
with honey-colored hair opened the door.
"Hello," I said. "I'm Robert Peterson. I missed your little girl today and wondered
where she was."
"Oh yes, Mr. Peterson, please come in. Wendy spoke of you so much. I'm afraid
I allowed her to bother you. If she was a nuisance, please accept my apologies."
"Not at all ~ she's a delightful child," I said, suddenly realizing that I meant it.
"Where is she?"
"Wendy died last week, Mr. Peterson. She had leukemia. Maybe she didn't tell
you." Struck dumb, I groped for a chair. My breath caught.
"She loved this beach; so when she asked to come, we couldn't say no.
"She seemed so much better here and had a lot of what she called happy days.
But the last few weeks, she declined rapidly..." her voice faltered.
"She left something for you ... if only I can find it. Could you wait a moment while
I look?"
I nodded stupidly, my mind racing for something, anything, to say to this lovely
young woman. She handed me a smeared envelope, with MR. P printed in bold,
childish letters. Inside was a drawing in bright crayon hues, a yellow beach, a
blue sea, and a brown bird. Underneath was carefully printed:
A SANDPIPER TO BRING YOU JOY.
Tears welled up in my eyes, and a heart that had almost forgotten to love opened
wide. I took Wendy's mother in my arms. "I'm so sorry, I'm sorry, I'm so sorry," I
muttered over and over, and we wept together.
The precious little picture is framed now and hangs in my study. Six words -
one for each year of her life - that speak to me of harmony, courage, and an
undemanding love. A gift from a child with sea-blue eyes and hair the color of
sand - who taught me the gift of love.
By Mary Sherman Hilbert
1980 Reader's Digest
